PSA: Higgs Bozos
3 years ago
1 month ago
Some of you have seen this on facebook but for those who haven't, Ronnie and I are having a baby! after all that stress we finally got lucky!
Not sure what it is yet, but we think it's a boy based on the last sonogram. Will know for sure soon.
1 month ago
3 months ago
In my investigation of trying to stop getting annoying notifications of every move my watchlist makes (in the top corner). I accidentally unsubscribe from everyone. I tried to go and follow everyone again.. .but that function didn't seem to work because users I follow still seems to be empty.
So everyone just lost a follower until I figure it out. hahahah.
4 months ago
Posting a journal via my phone because I am just lazy enough that I can not fathom walking into the other room...
RTX is next month! I am not attending because I've committed to too many conventions this year and the ticket prices just didnt work for me.
BUT the awesome @leprasaun and lovely Ashleigh (idk her rt name) will be staying with us and hopefully be keeping us updated on all the community meetups. I hope to see some of you soon!
Life has been pretty hectic and crazy. My dad just started his second round of chemo. He is still active and all in all has pretty good quality of life. I worry about him a lot and I am grateful for every chance I get to see him and my mom and I call them almost everyday to talk about nothing.
I cannot remember if I have told people here at all but if I have I am sorry for the reruns. Ronnie and I are trying to have a baby. Which is not as easy for some of us. I've been through every test and am now taking fertility meds. Meanwhile, 3 of my friends got pregnant their first month trying. 2 are due next month. Nothing makes you feel more defective than your closest friends getting pregnant right away. But I'm learning to deal. I'm not sure that what I am doing now is going to work, but if it doesn't there are other things to try. It is just emotionally draining to have a fresh wave of disappointment every month.
Ronnie's studio has a mobile game coming out and I think it is pretty good. Ronnie programmed a lot of the game play himself and all the play tests have been positive. My nephew loves it and begs Ronnie to let him play on his phone when we visit. I will share more details when I can but of course everything has to stay secret until they are about to release.
Anyway. That is all from me. Hope everyone is doing well.
9 months ago
So sad to hear the news today. :(
9 months ago
Well, I was compelled to log on for other reasons (Monty, of course). But I've been meaning to come make an update anyway. So here it goes:
Dad is still in chemo. (3 months left). He just had a CT Scan last week and so far he is responding to treatments. He has to get a colonoscopy in 3 month to see what real progress has been made. But so far that is where we are at. The bad news (to me) is that the doctor said colon cancer doesn't really go into remission.. so we are just kind of doing what we can while we can and staying hopeful. But knowing that this disease is likely to be what takes my dad, is kind of hard to face.
Other than visiting him as much as possible we have been busy with a great many things. We are trying to get pregnant. Harder than my two already pregnant friends make it look. (they got pregnant their first month trying!) I've got an appointment already to talk to a doctor about some issues that I've known about since I was a teenager but are only relevant now that I am trying to get pregnant instead of trying not to get pregnant.
I'm doing yoga at least once a week. Trying for twice a week but things have been so hectic. I really like going to class. The teacher at the place by my house is really helpful.
We went to PAX South. Which was awesome. People recognized my cosplay character which was almost unexpected since Tales games aren't super popular here. The food was probably the lamest part of the convention. I didn't really expect much better but I'm use to A-Kon which has amazing food trucks in addition to the crappy food that I was hoping they my do something similar.
I am taking an astronomy class through coursera.. for the second time actually.. I started last year but had to give up to plan the wedding. But I'm determined to finish this time. Unfortunately it is taking up most of my after work time. Which is pretty stressful.
I will be 29 in March... I'm trying to think of something different to do. For some reason I feel like it being the last year of my 20s I should do something kind of special. I'm considering kidnapping Ronnie and making him stay at a B&B somewhere with me. We'll see. So far all my plans in my head seem lame.
There have been many other little events but it's hard to keep track. Suffice it to say that I haven't been at home on the weekends for the better part of 5 months. Our poor cats are desperate for attention.
Anyway, I hope you guys are doing well. And are less busy than I. I will be around Austin for RTX but have not decided if we will attend. The price the past few years has been steadily increasing. We'll see.
1 year ago
He starts chemo next week. The doctor said they wouldn't try to remove it, even if it shrinks. I don't know exactly why but I guess maybe it's spread too much? I've read a lot about Stage IV and it seems like chemo is just to try to treat it. Curing it is not usually possible at this stage. At this point it seems like we are just trying to get more time.
I'll be in Clifton a lot from now on I guess. I hope he handles the chemo ok and that the cancer responds to it.
Thanks to everyone who is praying. I don't have much else to report.
1 year ago
So I guess it has been a while since I gave this site a proper update. Here is a bulleted list of things that have happened in the last 8 months.
- We went on a small brewery tour for Valentine's day.
Some friends of ours, who are also a couple, invited us to go on a brewery tour for Valentine's day. We went to Thirsty Planet and Jester King which are too local breweries (Microbreweries?) in South Austin. If you love good beer and are living in or ever visit Austin, I definitely recommend checking out Jester King. They have this great outdoor area to hang out and a Pizza restaurant (Stanley's Farmhouse Pizza I believe) on the same property. It was a lot of fun and Jester King makes my favorite beer ever, Atrial Rubicite.
- Ronnie was let go from his job for the web development company in March
We believe the cause was mostly political but the whole thing happened very quickly and unprofessionally. Ronnie just got a call one night that it wasn't "working out.' That was pretty much it.
- Ronnie was invited back to the game studio he was working at previously.
This happened less than 24 hours after being let go and was a really lucky break for us considering we only had a little over a month left before the wedding. They hired him back officially about 3 weeks later.
- We had a wedding!
Everything went as smoothly as it could have though I regret not getting more pictures of Ronnie and I being cute. After the reception all of our friends stayed and camped with us that night. It was a ton of fun and everyone thought it was a really fun way to celebrate.
- We had a honeymoon!
For our honeymoon we went to stay at a condo in Dillon, Colorado for a week. After 12 months of planning a wedding, I was super ready have a week to just relax. We went hiking, played board games, watched movies, and did as little as possible for a few days. We also went to the History and Science Museum in Denver and spent a night in Estes Park at the Stanley Hotel which is where Stephen King got his idea to write the Shining. And we watched The Shining.
- We went to A-Kon
This was our 5th year at A-Kon. Because of the wedding we weren't able to put time and effort in our cosplay so we went as Saki and Takizawa from Eden of the East. Almost no one could tell we were in costume. It was a lot of fun of course and passed by too quickly
- We Volunteered at San Japan
One of our friends is a volunteer head for San Japan and asked us to help him out this year in Hotel Ops. It wasn't as much work as I thought it would be. Mostly we sat watching anime and running errands here and there. It was extremely cold in the room we were in though. For some reason the hotel was not able to turn the air in the room off so it stayed around 67 all weekend.
- We bought weekend passes for PAX South.
I've always wanted to go to one and since PAX South is in San Antonio (in the same convention center San Japan is in) It seemed like a perfect time to go. Ronnie and I are excited. If you are going to be there, send me a message!
And those are really all the major events. We are still busy almost every weekend doing this and that. Trying to catch up on chores or visiting this person or that person. I'm starting to feel pretty worn out. So, I hope this weekend will be relaxing.
How Have you guys been?
2 years ago
There isn't a lot to say.
Just that I am busy. Ronnie's new job is amazing. so far he is really enjoying it. The perks are unbelievable but I won't go on about it. We are both really happy with how things are going.
My job is less exciting but my boss promised me a raise and a bonus this year and is giving me the time off I want for the Holidays and for the honeymoon.
We are well into wedding planning now. My dress is here and we just picked out the attire for the rest of the party. My dad isn't happy about wearing a tux but he will get over it. This weekend we are focusing on the rentals and maybe looking for a bakery. I also have about 4 little things I need to do.
and sending out the save the dates is a big thing that needs to get done
I'm sad it's taken so long.
We just started planning the honeymoon I think we are all but settled on Hawaii .. I'm excited about it. I haven't ever been. Ronnie has. I'm scared of flying over water is the only thing. not that it is really any worse than land when you think about it. Crashing is crashing.
How are you guys????